Now this is not a poor lady and she realizes it is ridiculous, so she was laughing when she was telling me the story. I laughed too, but I also know that sometime or other she had to pinch pennies, and she never has gotten over it. I do not know anything of her life before arriving in Canada, but I know she is German and is close to my own age, and I know they started businesses in Canada and started them from scratch. I commented that developing the habit of being frugal was very useful, which she agreed. Her next comment was interesting. She said "Both our children and our grandchildren know nothing of being frugal. They all spend as if there is no end of money".
Many years ago, I went shopping with Aunt Essie from Peterborough. She was a wealthy lady, shopping in a store owned by her son Ernest. She was there for oranges and I went just for company as my Mother and Father were doing the services on the Sunday and I accompanied them. Aunt Essie, out loud, calculated which oranges were the best buy and ended up buying the smallest oranges, as by weight, you got the most fruit. I was astonished but of course, never said a word. Aunt Essie and her husband built that store up from nothing and never got over counting the pennies. Neither did Karen, my new friend in Mexico.
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Ruth, You and Ken have worked very hard your whole lives. But most of all, you have both LIVED your lives with such gusto and joy. I must admit that I am a bit jealous! My own live has been just wonderful (aside from a few moments!) and I have enjoyed it. I do think of you and Texas often. From your comments about cleaning and organizing, etc. --- come on out and help!! With the art work I am doing (teaching two classes per week on mosaics here in my studio) and teaching K-5 art at a small Catholic Elementary school one day a week --- fear that cleaning is not the top of my list!! Keep in touch.
Martha, I can organize anything, but I certainly have no ability to create anything. So keep on going with your projects. The cleaning will wait. And come and visit. Ruth.
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